Paula, Neil, Tristan, Kaiden. Gilbert-Jex Family.

2007 - 2007
LocationHebburn
Age1 month
Cause of DeathRoad Traffic Collision
Date of Birth2/2007
Date of Death3/2007
Visitors6,652 since 14/04/2007
Creator

In loving memory of Paula, 29, Neil, 37, Trystan, 3, and Kaiden, 7months, tragically killed in a car
crash on the A1 on march 3rd 2007.
much loved mam, dad and brothers to Macauley.
Will always be in the hearts of family and friends.

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Paula and Neil had just got engaged and were traveling to Blackburn to visit Neils family to arrange
a double wedding with his brother Paul and his partner.
They had their three boys with them, Macauley aged 8, Trystan aged 3 and baby Kaiden aged 7 months.
Tragically, they never arrived.
A transit van clipped their car, causing it to spin out of control and hit the trees.
Only Macauley survived the crash, it was a miracle he got out of the car alive.
He was taken to James Cook hospital and all he kept saying was i wish i hadnt lost my family.
It was heartbreaking.

Macauley was well enough to attend his familys funeral.
Seeing those 4 white coffins would have broken anyones heart.
Over 200 people attended. the service and music was touching and very moving.
It was a beautiful send off for a beautiful family.

Paula, Neil and the boys were a very happy family, and we will never forget them.
So tragically taken too soon by a careless driver.

A 22 year old man appeared at Teeside crown court on 2nd November and was jailed for 7 years.
Not enough to replace the lives of those he robbed.


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happy 40th birthday!

happy 40th birthday neil!!
lots ov love sam n mackenzie x x x

Samantha Gilbert (Sister) July 24, 2009

happy birthday

happy birthday dad. love macauley x x x

Samantha Gilbert (Sister) July 24, 2009

from our special family

Smile though your heart is aching
Smile even thought its breaking
When there are clouds in the sky you'll get by
If you smile through your fears and sorrows
Smile then maybe tomorrow
You'll see the sun come shinning through
If you light up your face with gladness
Hide every trace of sadness
Although a tear maybe ever so near
Thats the time you must keep on trying
Smile whats the use of crying
You'll find that life is still worthwhile if you just
SMILE xxxx

Pauline (Auntie) July 20, 2009

miss ya loads

miss ya loads each n everyday
in my heart is where you'll stay
i know in time i'll see you again
you were my sis but also a friend

your life was short
but think of the lessons you taught
you were the heart of all the family
now ur gone it deeply saddens me

just to hear yout voice would be great
but i guess i'll have to wait
when my time on earth is done
you know we'll have so much fun!

Samantha Gilbert (Sister) July 14, 2009

my brother my best friend.

Thank u 4 bing my brother. thank 4 bing there wen i needed u. life go,s on neil i no nw. rest in peace little brother tell paula hi. give the boys a big hugg frm thier antie cheryl. lov and miss u all. frm ur little big sis. i,m a stronger person 4 noing u all.

Cheryl Scrimgeour June 27, 2009

I'm sending a dove to heaven
With a parcel on its wings.
Be careful how you open it
It’s full of beautiful things

Inside are a million kisses
Wrapped up in a million hugs
To say how much you mean to us
And send you all our love.xxxx

Pauline (Auntie) May 27, 2009

never ending pain

Here it comes again…
I can only escape it for a while.
How am I to go on without them here beside me?
Pain, pain…Go away. Come again another day.
When I am feeling stronger

Here it comes again…
The searing in my heart and soul.
How can I face another day when I don’t know where they are?
Pain, pain…go away. Come again another day
When I have grown wiser.

Here it comes again…
The sun is rising on its own.
How can this be when my world has crumbled all around me?
Pain, pain…go away. Come again another day.
When I can feel warmer.

Here it comes again…
I feel the raindrops on my head.
Hear all the sounds of life, though my own is silent without them.
Pain, pain…Go away. Come again another day.
When I am less faltering.

Here it comes again…
But wait! What’s this?
Somehow the years have flown and I don’t know how this happened?
Pain, pain…Go away. Come again another day.
When I am more courageous.

Yes. Here it comes again…
But this time, not so bad.
Have I found relief, when I thought none was possible?
Pain, pain…Go away. Come again another day
When I have become older.

Yes. Come again when I am older
When time has made me feel it less.
When the sun warms me again and I can see all the way to heaven.
Pain, pain. Go away. Come again another day.
When I am no longer hindered.

Come again when my time is through.
And I can see for myself
God’s home and his angels shining brightly to welcome me there.
Pain, pain. Go away. Come again another day…

Paul Jex May 19, 2009

happy mother's day

happy mother's day mam lots of love macauley x x x x x x x x x x

Samantha Gilbert (Sister) March 22, 2009

Special angels

Hi Paula, Neil, Tristan and Kaiden. Just wanted to say hello and that im thinking of you on your 2nd angel anniversary.
Sorry ive not been on for a while, pc troubles.
Love and miss you all as always.
XXXX

Kevin Young (Cousin) March 3, 2009

2nd angelversary

_________(¯`• .¸*¸.• ´¯)Our special family
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___(¯`• .• ´¯)• Miss you
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___(¯`• .• ´¯)• Love you
___`• ., .• • ´
_____(¯`• .• ´¯) Always
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___________ `• ., (¯`• .• ´¯)paula,neil,trystan,kaiden

Pauline (Auntie) March 3, 2009
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